Let’s play a game, shall we? Take s a shot for everything you have done.
Never have I ever: Skinny-dipped. Take shot.
Never have I ever: Drive over the speed limit. Take shot.
Never have I ever: Spent over my limit on a night out. Take shot
Never have I ever: Looked in the mirror and not feel bad about myself. Puts glass on the table.
Never have I ever: Loved myself every day of my life. “I don’t want to play anymore”.
When did you become that, insecure? When did we stop loving ourselves? When did we stop believing we could do anything?
Have you ever met a 5-year-old? Those little humans can do whatever they want, and not give two shits about what you think. You were once that 5-year-old. But somewhere you grew up, stop listening to yourself and started listing to the world. And it’s standards.
When was the last time, you opened social media, saw someone’s post, and thought I need to look like this? The truth is you’re already starving yourself and working out 5 days a week. We are different! Isn’t that the beauty in us? No! Women all need to be fit, have long straight hair, tanned unscared skin. Men need to be tall, and dark, and buff. Well, I call Bullshit! Here’s a challenge, go unfollow every celeb/person that has ever made you feel insure about yourself, just for a week. You’ll see the mindset change.
We are human, we are wired to overthink. But we knew that nothing good comes from it, accept that is a waste of time. It destroys your mood and happiness. You create scenes in your head that make everything worse than it actually is. Take a breath, exhale have faith.
We tend to get stuck in a hole. Stress ourselves out, either because of our weight, height, social/love life, job, etc. The list can go on forever. Here’s the truth, not all of them you can control! But some you can! Make the change, but because you want to not because someone told you to. Rock bottom can be a good place to start your new solid foundation.
You deserve the life that little 5-year-old dreamed about!
You deserve love. You deserve self-care. You deserve respect. You deserve to love yourself. You deserve to put yourself first.
“If you want to fly, give up everything that ways you down”
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